Is There a Method to Your Meeting Madness?
“Meetings.... are rather like cocktail parties. You don’t
want to go but you’re cross not to be asked.” A keen observation
of the typical attitude. But if you do decide that an in-the-flesh,
real-time meeting is necessary to achieve your objective, consider the
variety of ways to exchange information.
Here are a few suggestions for evaluating interest, exchanging data
or opinions, and coming to decisions: Could you survey by show of hands
(or member names or numbers written on a card for the purpose of the
meeting) and simply count and report the results? Could you survey by
show of hands/names/numbers and then ask meeting participants to note
the responses and make arrangements to seek each other out for later
private discussions or information sharing?
Could you pose a question and have participants respond electronically
or in writing? Collect the ideas, report them, piggyback them, or eliminate
the less-often-mentioned ideas?
Could you pose an issue, state the “apparent” opinion/position,
and then ask those who have an “exceptional” situation/position/opinion
to speak up about those exceptions or objections?
Could you post agree/disagree statements on the wall, pose a question/issue,
and then ask meeting participants to go stand beside their response?
Have each of the two groups quickly generate a list of reasons for that
opinion. Then call on one speaker from each side to succinctly present
their list of supporting reasons.
Could you set up an exchange of information in the form of a panel of
experts/representatives who can provide necessary information at the
START of a discussion rather than after the fact? These few methods
of information exchange at meetings may save you innumerable minutes
of thoughtful meandering.
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Author of 42 books (Simon & Schuster/Pocket, Warner, and McGraw-Hill),
Dianna Booher, CSP, CPAE, delivers keynotes, breakout sessions, and
training on communication and life-balance issues. Her latest books:
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