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#45 November 7, 2005

It is Friday, November 4, 2005 as I write this to honor my father, Jim Tunney, Sr.. This is an important day, since Dad would be 100 today. "Would be" because he left us 40 years ago - way too soon for the positive, upbeat, youthful and energetic role model and mentor that he was.

I wrote about role models and "mentors" in It's the Will, Not the Skill/, a book that focuses on the principles and philosophies of success as seen through the eyes, mind and heart of Herman Edwards, Head Coach of the New York Jets. The book is dedicated to Herman's parents - Herman, Sr . and mother Martha. Herman says his parents set the standard for the way he has conducted his life. Parents are essential in the proper raising of children and my parents as well as Herman's are shining examples.

As an educator and life long learner, I am often asked about how we "correct" or "improve" today's schools. Better teachers and better salaries, of course, consistent standards of behavior, you bet. My #1 answer, however, is always - "parenting". By that, I not only mean awareness of what and how your kids are doing, but a close involvement in their daily lives and school activities. Not the parole "officer" type surveillance, but a partnership.

Do young people today realize the global competition they face in competing for space in higher education and the job market? I suggest you read The World is Flat by Thomas Friedman. His very real description of globalization is alarming.

My father taught me to "hit the ground running", go the extra mile and always - always - keep learning. My intention is to pass his influence onto my children and grandchildren. Herman, Sr. did that for his son whose practice has always been, "Just give me an opportunity, I'll work at it". One should never be afraid of competition, fearful of taking a risk or being afraid to lose.

Often the field of sports provides young people with several attributes not always available in other areas. Being on a T*E*A*M helps one learn to get along, to compromise, to step up and help others, to deal with failure as well as success, and to learn from a mentor. Mentoring is not only a parent's opportunity, it is their responsibility.

Will you be a positive role model and mentor to others?

Look for my new book
It's the Will, Not the Skill
Principles and philosophies of success

For more information about Jim Tunney, go to www.jimtunney.com

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